Question: I really enjoy reading about how your family enjoys holidays like Christmas without spending a lot of money (we all know what the reason is for the season, right?), but unfortunately my mother in law spends too much and expects others to do the same. My husband comes from a big family, so it can get expensive. I suggested doing a Secret Santa gift exchange to my mother in law, but she did not seem very enthusiastic. I would love to give homemade presents (cookies, bread, crafts, etc.) but worry that they will not be enjoyed. How would you “do” the holidays?