Question: I just read that cooked meat dries out when frozen -- do you freeze cooked turkey meat? Also, do you just wrap your pumpkin (and other quick) bread in plastic or do you use foil when freezing? I'd love to see post a turkey soup recipe. I'm new to this even though I'm a senior citizen.
We do freeze turkey meat and store it in zippered bags. Getting as much air out as possible keeps it from getting dried out. An alternate, but more expensive method would be to use a vacuum sealer.
We wrap our quick breads in foil, but plastic wrap would work just as well. Just be careful when you store them in the freezer to protect them from getting crushed.
How do you store meat in your freezer so it doesn't spoil?
We do have a turkey soup recipe posted in our subscriber only area (Member Archive), but here is a copy of it:
When the weather is chilly, nothing warms up a house, and your bones, like a hot bowl of home made soup. Throughout the year, we save chicken backs, ham bones and turkey carcasses (all of the bones), in plastic bags in our freezer. We cook one turkey (bought at Thanksgiving time) almost every month of the year (except the really hot summer months). Annette boils the carcass to make the broth.
Turkey Soup Recipe
Alternate: You could also add noodles or brown rice (don’t use white rice, it will turn to mush)
Add either beans or brown rice to simmering soup mixture at least 2 hours prior to serving. If using noodles, add to boiling soup 1/2 hour before serving.
Question: I was wondering how you deal with kids and technology, particularly cell phones and texting. I remember reading in your books that you do not allow texting at the dinner table, but how does your family deal with kids and cell phone plans, etc? Thanks so much!!
Answer: You ask a great question and we actually answered it in our upcoming book The MoneySmart Family System. So we’ll give you a preview here:
Question: I bought a car for my niece, but didn’t have the cash so I put it on my credit card. It was only $5,000 but my niece has stopped making payments to me and offered to give me the car back. She says the car is only worth about $1800 now. What should I do?
Answer: This may sound heartless, but repossess the car and sell it. If your niece has stopped making car payments to you she may also have stopped making insurance payments as well. It’s your property, and it’s her lesson to be learned. If the title is in her name, get her to sign it over to you. When it sells, deduct what you receive, from what she owes then make out a ledger sheet outlining what she still owes and when her payments are due. Have her sign a written agreement saying that she will repay the balance and hold her to it. Even if she doesn’t fully pay you back, you’ve recouped some of the costs and hopefully given her a real life lesson in the costs of careless borrowing.
A few of other things:
1) Before you sell: Do your research about the worth of the car. Your niece has been careless when considering the cost of buying a car, she may also be inaccurate in assessing its value. When you do sell, only accept cash—no monthly payments from the new buyer.
2) Pay it down: Take the money from selling the car and immediately pay it on the outstanding balance on your credit card. Don’t even think about spending a penny of it. It may be possible to negotiate a lump sum pay off at a reduced amount, so ask the question of your lender. If they say ‘Yes’ you win, if not, you need to keep paying.
3) Count your blessings and learn YOUR lesson: Right now it looks like this lesson might cost you $3200. That’s not terribly expensive, but it can be if you choose to “help” out a family member again. Remember that the banks probably turned her down for a loan for good reason, that’s why she came to you for a loan. Leave the lending to the banks and just love your family members—maybe bake some cookies, but don’t lend any money. Cosigning or lending to family members rarely turn out well financially or relationally. If you follow our advice, you’ll never be in this place again and your financial future will be much brighter.
Question: One of our cats got really sick and we tried to help her, but she finally had to be put to sleep. The vet bills added up to a couple of thousand dollars, which we didn’t have. She’s gone, we’ve grieved, and now we’re struggling to make the payments each month. Do you have any advice to pet lovers?
Answer: Many people forget that pets cost much more than food and water. Other expenses include: micro chipping, neutering / spaying, licensing, immunizations and vet bills. Add to all of this miscellaneous supplies, toys, repairs (to your home), carpet cleaning and training and you’ve basically assumed the cost of raising a child.
To combat the “unexpected” expenses of pet ownership, we created a separate category for pets in our budget. Every two weeks we put aside a predetermined amount of money for pet care. Every family will have different values and financial limits, so how much you save is up to you. But you’ve got to save something for your pet.
We know that some of you may disagree with this, but for our family and budget this is what works. When an emergency or illness occurs, we let finances be our determining factor. Spending money you don’t have, never helps the situation. If our pets require surgery, and we don’t have money saved to cover it, we’ll have to choose to put the pet to sleep. Please don’t think that we’re hard hearted. Our German Shepherd’s all have lived to a ripe old age and we’ve cared for them well, and sobbed when we had to say good bye. We love our pets, and they are an integral part of our family, but they simply aren’t people. Plus there are so many wonderful pets waiting for homes through rescue groups that trying to keep a very old, or very sick animal alive, seems like it might be for our own emotional well being, but not the animals.
Q. My two college kids are home for the summer and they’re eating us out of house and home. Not only that but whenever we go out to dinner all of their friends want to join us. Even though my husband is a doctor and I’m a nurse, this is becoming very costly. Am I wrong to feel resentful about my kids’ friends freeloading off of us?
A. No you aren’t wrong to be concerned. Kids should learn to pay their own way. You have many options to consider, you’ll simply need to spell out some guidelines.
Option 1) If you don’t want to buy all of the young adults a meal, sit down with your kids and explain that when you go out to dinner, it will either be “family only” or on special occasions, they may bring one friend each. But it all needs to be communicated in advance. No last minute substitutions or begging.
Option 2) If you’re going to agree to feed your kids and their friends, select different or less costly restaurants, such as fast food restaurants or all you can eat buffets and order water to drink. If you go to a more expensive restaurant, explain that you’ll pay for the main meal, but not for appetizers, drinks or dessert. If they want the extras, they can pay for it. Living with limits is a real life experience.
Option 3) Instead of eating out, bring food in. Pick up Chinese food, pizza or a rotisserie chicken; bagged salad and a tub of ice cream. There are plenty of take out options. Or search the grocery store freezer case for some other prepared food that is simple to cook up. It is one of the fastest growing sections in the store.
Option 4) Turn the tables on them. Continue to take them out once in a while, but have your children (and their friends) buy and prepare a meal for you and your husband at least once each week. Young adults will willingly fall into the dependent role and allow you to meet their every need . . . until you decide to stop. They are fully capable of participating in the purchasing and preparing of the food they eat,
Whatever options you choose, make sure you are teaching your young adults to stand on their own feet financially and not training them in an entitlement lifestyle which they may not be able to sustain or afford on their own. And remember that true friends will stick with your kids even if you stop feeding them fancy steak dinners.
Stop feeling resentful and be resourceful—you’ll feel better and your kids will grow up to be more appreciative.